What Is Stopping You From The Life and Business You Want?

Your #1 Success Block is People Pleasing

The results show that your #1 Success Block is People Pleasing. This is what is stopping you from attracting the love, money, dream clients and living your purpose.

In a nutshell, people pleasing

Chances are, the statements below ring true for you either when you were growing up and/or they are still showing up in your business and life now:

  • I feel an overwhelming sense of responsibility for my client’s success
  • I feel like if I am not available for them it is going to reflect badly on me
  • I feel like I have to respond immediately to my clients
  • I don’t have the confidence to call my clients out on things
  • I am afraid to say no out of guilt
  • I agree with others to avoid conflict even though I feel resentful later
  • I let my clients contact me anytime they need to
  • I sometimes wonder who is calling the shots, my clients or me
  • Even though I set out my terms and conditions, I still overstep the mark and over give.
  • I find myself unable to say no when I am uncomfortable doing something
  • I try to fix other people’s problems

The problem with these statements is that they stop us from earning the money we want to make, building the business we want and living in purpose.

When you truly understand the root cause of People Pleasing (or Poor Boundaries) you can release old beliefs and fears and step into self-love and confidence. As a result you will be able to attract dream clients, love, money and abundance in every area of your life.

Maybe you feel responsible for client’s results or other people’s happiness

Or you need to be available all the time to meet people’s needs

Or you are afraid to say no to people. You feel guilty when you say no because you ‘just want to help and be a good person’

Or maybe your self-worth comes from other people’s opinion of you, like your clients

 

You could be dealing with people pleasing for a number of reasons; and as hard as it is to admit, your people pleasing could be one of the main reasons you’re not creating the success you yearn for.

 

So why do we struggle with people pleasing? Why do we have a habit of stepping in our own way?

                                                Root Cause

People Pleasing usually starts in early childhood , specifically the way you were treated, loved and cared for by your parents or primary caregivers.

If as a child your parent(s) only showed you love when you were only meeting their needs, conforming to their desires and expectations, you will grow up believing that you need to please them (and as you grow older, other people) in order to receive love and be accepted.

As a child you felt as if you had to prove yourself to be accepted and love, and you unconsciously apply this to every human interaction.

EXAMPLE OF PEOPLE PLEASING

You have an important task that needs completing and you keep putting it off with no good reason

Consciously, You may say to yourself, I don’t want to do (fill in the blank)

Subconsciously – you’re thinking, you better say yes or you will disappoint people, or people won’t like you, or you’ll let people down.

You have a great idea or dream, but you are afraid to go after your dreams, or do the things you want to do

Consciously, You may say you want to (fill in the blank) or I cannot feel good unless (fill in the blank)

Subconsciously, you are thinking, I need other people to tell me it is okay for me to do this, or I need them to validate my idea/dream or to feel good about myself

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